5/16/14
Return of the Hippie Summer
The Only Recipe I Need This Summer
5/15/14
No Nap Day
5/7/14
Plan Enacted
Previous post removed (temporarily) because I can’t stand having those kind of random and unfounded lies written by an ignoramus floating out there. I really appreciate the comments and support, verifying that I am right in drawing the line with that stupid (and not even cute!) just-ignorant-enough-to-be-dangerous 21 yr old who doesn’t know the difference between “your” and “you’re”. Oh, and to the commenter who suggested that that type of behavior indicates a history of abuse – I looked through the rest of the blog and she does have that in her past. Poor thing. No wonder she has such low self esteem. No undamaged person would behave in such a way. At least that person has the good sense to ensure me over and over he would never marry her – you don’t marry people you cheat on. That’s gotta hurt.
She’ll eventually wake up and see what a dead end situation she’s in and how much trouble she’s caused and how nuts she acted. Time gives us perspective.
Anyway, I’ve developed an action plan.
Love you readers. You always give me good perspective.
5/4/14
The Symptoms
Let me start out by saying I have a high tolerance for physical irritation. Like most mothers, when I feel sick I medicate and march on. It takes a lot to lay me out. But each trimester (so far) has come with a new set of unfamiliar problems.
Having a pregnant body is like the city of Chernobyl. Everything was going along fine until nature took over and made me its subject.
First Trimester Aggravations
1. The barfs. Barf central 24/7.
2. The starves. Couldn't decide if I was hungry or needed to barf, but usually it was both.
3. The smells. I finally went out and bought face masks like they wear in Asia. And a slew of candles.
4. The sleeps. Cannot keep my eyes open. Have frequently taken more than one nap a day.
5. Migraines from hell. My migraines are super rad. They last at least three days and are essentially debilitating requiring me to hide in a dark quiet room while it feels like a gnome is mining for gold on one side of my head. The migraine medicine exacerbates my barfing and isn't good for pregnancy. The barfing migraines give me digestive problems. Every issue I have builds on other issues until the best I can do is lay around and moan. Any one or two of these issues would be bearable, but all five at once made me nonfunctional. And when you have the barfs and the smells you end up with the messy house and the overwhelms.
Second Trimester Frustrations
Once the barfs tapered off (though not completely, I still barf a few times a week) my body was like, "Hey let's try some new pain!"
1. Symphysis Pubis Dysfunction. I didn't even know this existed until I caught it. And by caught it I mean hit the second trimester with my fourth baby. The symphysis pubis is a stiff joint that connects the two halves of your pelvis and in 1/35 the ligaments can overreact and cause serious pain. I'm only about 21 weeks and not that great with child but my body Chernobyl'd and now I can't move my legs independently to a. Put on pants. b. Climb into or turn over in bed or c. do anything that involves moving one leg away from the other without a ferocious pain in my pelvis. It feels like David Beckham kicked me in the crotch hard enough to bruise me and then kicked the bruise a few times for good measure. Tylenol provides no relief. If you see me out of my bed at all know that I am dealing with level 7 pain. Anybody got any tips? I'm only five months in, if this gets worse I'm going to be in a wheelchair by the end.
2. Sciatic nerve pain. Yippee. This one is when a nerve on your back is slightly pinched and pain shoots up and down your body until you limp. For this I try sleeping on a tennis ball and by morning it's usually ok. During the day it builds until I find myself practically (ok, sometimes literally) crawling.
I seriously do not understand why my body is rebelling in this way but I simply will not capitulate to it's tyranny. I remind it every day that it's gotta pull itself together because this is NOT going to be my last pregnancy. I will function, pain or no pain, and it's all worth it because